According to a report by Punch on Saturday, May 2, 2026, Enoch Adeboye has shared a series of marital guidelines directed at young men, advising them to focus on character, spirituality, and practical values when choosing a life partner.
The cleric gave the advice during the May edition of the Holy Ghost Service held on Saturday, where he addressed issues relating to marriage, family life, and personal responsibility.
His message centred on the importance of making careful decisions before marriage and avoiding choices based solely on physical appearance or social pressure.
During the gathering, Adeboye spoke extensively about the role of spiritual discernment in relationships and marriage.
He cautioned young men against allowing physical beauty to become the main factor in selecting a spouse.
According to him, attraction without deeper understanding and prayerful consideration could lead to serious problems in marriage.
He explained that many people become too focused on outward appearance while ignoring qualities that sustain long-term relationships such as patience, kindness, understanding, and responsibility.
The cleric stressed that marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires emotional maturity, spiritual guidance, and compatibility beyond physical attraction.
He also discussed the importance of domestic values and hospitality within marriage.
Adeboye advised men to pay attention to whether a potential spouse demonstrates practical abilities and willingness to contribute positively to family life.
According to him, qualities such as care for others, good attitude, and hospitality remain important foundations for a stable home.
He noted that marriage involves partnership and shared responsibilities, making it necessary for both individuals to possess habits that support peace and cooperation in the household.
His comments reflected traditional values often associated with family structure and home management within many Nigerian communities.
The cleric further addressed the issue of financial pressure associated with weddings and marriage ceremonies.
He warned young men against entering marriages that begin with excessive financial burden or debt caused by extravagant wedding plans.
According to him, a wedding ceremony should not become a source of long-term hardship for couples at the beginning of married life.
He advised that any situation where wedding expenses threaten financial stability should be reconsidered carefully.
Adeboye explained that moderation and financial wisdom are necessary in planning ceremonies, especially at a time when many families face economic challenges and rising living costs.
In his message, Adeboye emphasized the importance of moderation and responsible decision-making in relationships.
He noted that some people become carried away by social expectations, luxury displays, or the desire to impress others during wedding celebrations.
According to him, couples should focus more on building a stable future together rather than spending beyond their means for a single event.
He encouraged young people to think about long-term responsibilities such as housing, family support, and financial stability rather than concentrating only on the public image of a wedding ceremony.
He maintained that wise planning at the beginning of marriage could help prevent unnecessary stress later in life.
He said, “Don’t marry a girl who does not do things in moderation. No matter how close you are to a wedding and your girl is suggesting a wedding that is going to cost you everything you have and get you into debt, call it off.”……See More
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