Veteran Nollywood actress and filmmaker Joke Silva has shared a personal story about her father while reflecting on how cultural expectations often shape gender roles within families.
She made the revelation during a candid conversation on the With Chude podcast hosted by media personality Chude Jideonwo. The discussion explored long-standing beliefs about domestic responsibilities and whether certain expectations placed on men and women are rooted in tradition or influenced by societal pressures.
Recalling her childhood experiences, the actress explained that her father’s attitude toward household duties differed depending on where the family lived at the time.
She said: “When we were in England, my father used to cook for us, but he wasn’t doing that in Nigeria.”
According to Silva, her father had no problem preparing meals for the family while they were living abroad. However, upon returning to Nigeria, he no longer participated in cooking in the same way.
Her remarks formed part of a broader discussion about how social norms can influence behavior, even among the same individuals. The conversation examined how expectations surrounding gender roles often vary across different environments and cultures.
Silva suggested that some domestic practices commonly viewed as traditional may, in reality, be shaped by societal expectations and pressures rather than fixed cultural principles.
Her account reflects how previous generations navigated changing social environments, adapting their behavior to fit what was considered acceptable in different settings.
The discussion ultimately centered on the evolving nature of family roles and the influence of culture, society, and environment on everyday life……See More
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